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FIRST CONFESSION
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Good afternoon
PLEASE KEEP ME ANONYMOUS.I NEED THE OPINION OF YOUR AUDIENCE
I'm a nurse by profession. Although I have not yet been posted by the government, I secured a job with a private facility which pays me more than half of the government salary.
My boyfriend proposed that we get married this year and I went ahead to inform my mother about it. She is excited about it but does not want to involve my father in the preparations because my father did not take care of me since I was born. She made it clear to me that I can go ahead and tell my dad so they can compile the list but she won't pick her phone to call him. My boyfriend is also saying that they won't take any list from my mother's family because my dad is still my dad although he didn't take care of me.
My mother is a single mum of two of which I'm the first child and only girl. I took it upon myself to help her financially ever since I started my national service. And I've been supporting her untill date because I don't like to see them suffer. I love my mum and sibling. I'll do anything to make them comfortable. Somewhere last year, I promised her I'll save some money so that I can get her a piece of land to build a house because we don't have our own house and we're always moving from one house to another with its issues. I just want her to have a permanent place so I can also be at peace at least.
Yesterday she called me and asked me if I was still going to buy the land for her since I'm going to get married and her rent will be due soon. Her reason for asking is that I'll start doing things together with my husband once we get married. I assured her I'll do my best.
Now my problem is that, I didn't know the marriage thing will happen soon so I was still hoping to buy her the land with the money I'm saving. But now it looks like once I'm married the money now belongs to us(My husband and i).
Also from the way things are going I'll have to use part of my savings for the wedding preparations because I know my family will not help and I heard the bride's family is responsible for some of the costs.
I'm very confused and don't Don't know how to go about everything.
The unresolved conflict between my parents and the pressure that has started coming from my mum to buy the land.
Please help me make a decision. I'll be reading comments. Thank you
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SECOND CONFESSION
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Hallo
PLEASE KEEP ME ANONYMOUS
I have always had a problem with my menstruation and this time round I had to visit my Gynacologist for some check up which they sent me to a specialist in another hospital.
i had my test done and i was treated but they found out that I had an infection of which I wasn't aware of(I thank God for I believed this happened for a reason)and when I got home I did my research about the infection only to know it's form of an STI and was really shocked to an extend I started doubting those results. my boyfriend came home that evening and he asked about the doctors appointment and I shared with him about the results (he consoled me and promised he will be tested too).later that night I woke up to go for a short call and noticed he was deep asleep but his phone was still on,he was watching something on YouTube and didn't hesitate, took advantage of the chance I had to know what he was hidding from me and there it was!!!
Liked I Said earlier that I was shocked after the results mainly because I didn't understand how I could be having an infection when I wasn't sleeping around?meaning he (WAS) and God has given me the chance to clear my doubt.
So I read this particular chat of him with another lady I know(she was a mutual friend but I wasn't in contact with her)I knew they used to talk but didn't know was deeper than that .it was last December they did plan to meet up and they had sex to make it worse they did it raw!!! Their last chat they were in dilemma after the lady missed her period and she was blaming him that he could have cum inside her and she didn't want another baby(btw she's a mother of two) and they discussed about abortion and splitting up the abortion fee in half.
I was deeply hurt I don't know if I should confront him and tell him I did go through his phone,or should I confront both of them?Don't know which step to take
PLEASE help me before my head explodes.
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